I think we might be writing to different sid p but im actually not sure. I saw your message about how confused you were and i think i may be too. I would hope they arent the same person because i have been with this guy for the last 3 and half years and we live together now. is there anyway you can help figure out if we are talking about the same guy? because he said we werent and that he doesnt know you but of course thats what hed say if he didnt want me to know about you