I must begin with an apology first and foremost! It appears as if you are not who I thought you were. I am as well going through a very similar situation with my spouse and he initally told me that he had posted the message I responded to. He later came back and admitted he never posted anything.

So I needed to let you know that the response that was posted was not from the person that you had intended to receive the post.

I wish you lots of luck and happiness~